Sri Lanka-A Blessed or Blighted Nation
By Dr.Rajasingham Narendran
Sri Lanka, the land in which I was born and grew-up retains a hold on me that only death can probably do apart. I am sure a majority of the Tamils share these feelings, although they have been forced to disperse around the globe by circumstances beyond their control. I have had the fortune to have lived in different parts of Sri Lanka and travel across her length and width. Opportunities to travel widely and study and work in foreign climes – in the west, orient and middle-east- have not tempted me to seek the citizenship of any other country. There is something about Sri Lanka that makes me comfortable and at ease when I am there. I have not found this comfort anywhere else, despite having had the best of facilities where ever I have lived. The sense of belonging that is associated with this feeling of comfort has not been diluted in any way, by the trauma I have suffered in Sri Lanka connected with the communal/ethnic conflict. I have been classified as an incorrigible fool for not migrating by many a friend! Time may yet prove that I am a fool!
The ease and joy with which I switch from almost exclusively speaking English to speaking Tamil or Sinhalese soon after landing at the Katunayake airport and the tendency to talk only Tamil and finding it very difficult to speak English while in Jaffna, have puzzled me over the years. I used to feel comfortable and relaxed laying my head on my mother’s or my maternal aunt’s lap at least for a few minutes well into my adulthood and feel an almost similar sense of ease and belonging every where in Sri Lanka, whether mingling with the ordinary Sinhalese, Tamils or Muslims. The joy of speaking to the ordinary people in Sri Lanka in their simple lingo- whether Sinhalese or Tamil is something I enjoy to this day. The lilt in the Tamil spoken in Batticalao has always been music to my ears.
Subramanya Bharathy, the great Tamil poet, has summed up this affinity for one’s land in the following verses:
“Enthayum Thaayum Mahillndhu Khulaavi – Irrunthathum In Nadey;
Athan Munthayar Aayiram Aandhuhal Vaalnthu-Mudinthathum In Nadey;
Avar Sinthayil Aayiram Ennam Valarnthu-Sirrhanthathum In Nadey;
Ithai Vanthanai Khoori Manathil Iruthi-Vaayura Vaaltheno.—“ (Tamil)
“This is the land in which my mother and father lived, were happy and enjoyed each others company;
This is the land in which our ancestors lived thousands of years and died;
This is the land in which thousands of great thoughts blossomed in our ancestor’s minds;
I should worship these, remember these and praise these. —“(My translation)
The sense of belonging and attachment to land come from such thoughts and associations with the past, and life experiences- where one grew up, where one schooled, where one played, where one worshipped, etc.- and what these mean to a person. This sense of belonging and attachment cannot be ignored, easily destroyed or subordinated. The greater the pressures to do so, the greater would be the reactions to such pressures. Such actions and reactions under score many tragedies in human history. Sri Lanka is paying the price today for ignoring this reality and will continue to so, until sanity is restored to our ruling class and it is made accountable to the people.
I have bravely told my Tamil friends that what is special about Sri Lanka is that even after few days of a communal riot, in which the Tamils have experienced the worst at the hands of some elements among our Sinhala brethren; the ordinary Sinhalese feel comfortable dealing with the Tamils. They will be ready to address a Tamil with respect as ‘Mahathaya or Nona’ (The equivalent in Tamil will be ‘Aiyah and Amma’). Most Tamils feel rather fearful and awkward dealing with the Sinhalese even decades after major communal conflagrations and cannot figure out this aspect of the Sinhala psyche. The lack of deep seated and enduring animus against the Tamils amongst the majority of the Sinhala people should have been the basis on which to resolve the Sinhala-Tamil and majority-minority problems, if the Sinhala ruling class had wanted to reverse the damage done to the nation through their short sighted and self-seeking policies.
A majority of the Sinhalese, as a people, has not done any harm to the Tamils and do not bear any animosity towards them. A particular class of Sinhalese, a dominant but miniscule minority, has been the cause of all the mischief in Sri Lanka. The elements constituting this minority, who are easily identifiable in the political system, are holding the whole country including the Sinhala people in their vicious grip. They are corrupt to the core and have caused unfathomable damage to the country as a whole. The fault of the vast majority of the Sinhalese people, if any, lies in their lack of political maturity, awareness of their democratic rights and far sightedness. President Mahinda Rajapakse is presently providing the leadership for this predatory class and is treading a very dangerous path in a cavalier manner, assisted by his brothers to whom the extremely offensive word ‘Para Demala’ comes easy. This is despite the regular Rajapakse refrain that they have several Tamil ladies (of course also ‘Para Demalas’!) married into their clan. The outcome of the APRC process currently under way and due to conclude soon will clearly demonstrate the President’s bonafides and his ability to tame the rabble rousers he leads.
A majority among the Tamils on the other hand have been the direct victims of this mischief. To the average Tamil the oppressor- aggressor becomes identified as Sinhalese and all the Sinhalese get tarred with the same brush. The Tamils have ceased to interact with the Sinhalese as a people over the past several decades as a result of this alienation. Very few Tamils interact with the Sinhalese socially in their personal day-to- day lives. This estrangement has kept the vast majority of the Sinhalese in the dark about the pathetic plight of most Tamils and the devastation wrought in the north and east, in their name. The majority of the Sinhalese being innocent of any guilt and unaware of the sorry plight of the Tamils cannot understand the Tamil reactions, including the terrorism unleashed by a perverted Tamil militancy. The mischief makers on both sides of the political divide find these circumstances ideal to exploit and thrive on. This darkness of ignorance enveloping a majority of the Tamils and Sinhalese has provided the ideal cover for the power abusers, arch-schemers, bandits, thieves, buccaneers, extortionists, bribe and commission takers, blatant liars and murderers among the ruling class to carry out their evil deeds with impunity. Unfortunately, a very likeable, kind, generous, friendly and hospitable people –the Sinhalese, have been much maligned due to the dastardliness of a few and the lack of awareness among the many.
Historically, Tamil leaders have failed to reach out for the hearts and minds of the majority of the Sinhala people, and convince them of the injustice done to the Tamils in post-independent Sri Lanka, by elements amongst them. The Sinhala ruling class consisting of sections of the politicians, bureaucrats, businessmen, media, police, armed forces, judiciary and Buddhist monks, have exploited these circumstances to create a permanent state of turmoil in the country, which has benefited them immensely at the expense of the ordinary people. The money invested in the project to degrade the Tamils and make them a subordinate people over the decades could have made Sri Lanka, a paradise for all her people! This Sinhala ruling class, when convenient has even joined hands with elements of the Tamil political class including an organization such as the LTTE to keep the pot boiling. The agreement reached between Mahinda Rajapakse and Prabaharan, and the vast sums of money paid to the LTTE, to prevent the Tamils voting in the last presidential election is the most sinister example of this criminal collaboration.
It will be obvious to any one who has lived amongst the Sinhalese and Tamils that the latter are more introverted, conservative, defensive and clannish compared to the Sinhalese. The Sinhalese on the other hand are extroverted, aggressive, radical and progressive. The Tamil behaviour is in response to events of the distant and recent past. The introduction of Buddhism and development of the Sinhala language, and their rapid advance through conversions, assimilation and absorption over most parts of the Island over centuries, had forced the ‘Hindu Tamils’ yet loyal to their language, religion and culture to retreat into enclaves and erect their defenses against further intrusions. The events of recent years have forced the Tamils to also come out fighting to defend their ramparts. Most Tamils who have known no other place in Sri Lanka, other than their villages and towns in the north and east, have a sense of belonging to only these areas and not the larger Sri Lanka. The post-independence crusade against the Tamils has reinforced this parochial outlook. Even in the days of the so-called
‘Money Order’ economy, Tamil men who ventured into the South rarely brought their families with them. Their family and social life was rooted in the north and east, and the men were in the south to only earn. The Tamil Diaspora to a very large extent represents this outlook. Despite being scattered around the globe, they yet view the north and east of Sri Lanka as their land, to which they have a deep attachment. Sri Lankan Tamils have also been in the fore-front in contrast to Tamils from India, in establishing symbols of their culture- temples, restaurants, schools, television and radio stations, newspapers, web sites etc., in the countries where they have been forced seek domicile. The average Sri Lankan Tamil is not only strongly bonded to his ancestral land, but also bonded to his ethno-cultural identity.
The progressiveness of the Sinhalese has been demonstrated by their willingness to adopt and adapt several cultural practices that are clearly of Tamil origin. The Tamils on the other hand have refused to accept even what is good among the Sinhalese, in their day to day lives. My maternal grand mother who was the first in my family to migrate to Colombo from Jaffna in the early 1900s had told me that ‘Low Country’ Sinhala ladies were not wearing the sari at that time , but were attired in the ‘Cloth and Jacket’ varying in sophistication in accordance with their social status. The sari was adopted very quickly as standard attire by most Sinhalese ladies. Similarly, Bharatha Natyam, which was pioneered by Padmini Dahanayake among the Sinhalese in the 1950s and performed to Tamil music (Nattuvangam) is being widely learnt and performed by Sinhalese to Sinhala music. I notice the black ‘Pottu’ placed on the foreheads of Tamil babies- a practice to ward off the effects of evil eye amongst the Tamils- appearing with increasing frequency on the foreheads of Sinhala babies. Sinhala- Buddhists are visiting Hindu temples in larger numbers, although they worship in a manner different to that of the Tamils. Sinhala-Buddhist politicians have no hesitation in visiting Hindu temples in India and seeking the blessings of Hindu religious figures. ‘Thosai and Vadai’ have become a part of the Sinhala diet. In a decade are two, I am sure most Sinhalese will look askance if told that these were cultural practices originally of the Tamils.
However, in contrast, the Tamils have not similarly taken to anything specifically identified as Sinhala, including their food. It will be hardly surprising to find a Tamil worshipping at a Buddhist Vihara (This despite Lord Buddha being accepted as a saint by Tamil-Hindus) or learning Kandyan dancing. My grand mother had also told me that those Tamils who had ‘Migrated’ from the north to the south were considered to have demeaned themselves and were disparagingly referred to as ‘Paan Thinniyal (Bread eaters)’ by their contemporaries in the north! In the immediate post-independence years the Tamils began to move into the south in larger numbers seeking education and employment opportunities. They had just begun to think of Sri Lanka (Ceylon) as their country! Unfortunately, they were proven wrong by the sinister machinations of the Sinhala ruling class. The heavy Tamil presence in Colombo and some other southern towns at present is only the result of the unlivable conditions in the north and east and not a whole hearted and desired choice.
Several Sinhalese intellectuals, who also happen to be rational human beings, are now acknowledging a Tamil presence in the island as long as, if not, longer than the Sinhalese. Common origins and heavy intermingling have been recognized as very likely historical realities. Tamils and Sinhalese are distant cousins, if not siblings. Sri Lanka is our home and our land, even though we may have preferred areas of residence. We have, along with the Muslims and other minority groups inherited this bountiful and beautiful land, as our common heritage. Let us at least accept these basic realities and learn to live with each other, respecting each others right to existence, livelihood, opportunities, identity, land and share of political power. If all of us do well, our country will do well. Together, we can make Sri Lanka, a heaven on earth and hound those who have betrayed us from their positions of power. It is for us to decide whether Sri Lanka is to continue as a blighted land or one that is blessed, as she deserves to be. The Sinhala people have to make their choice ‘FIRST’ as the majority community, between what Sri Lanka is to be- a blessed or blighted nation. The ball is in their court at this point in our history.
P.Nathan said,
August 23, 2007 @ 10:35 am
“……………several Tamil ladies married into their clan”
Click ‘nilaperumal’ on Google & you will see the mixed ancestry of the recent ‘ruling dynasty’ – reunited again in marriage now with an englishman.
“Kandyan Hospitality” was well known – which was extended to visiting british governers and high officials in the kandyan areas in days of yore – which resulted in the fair complexion of many kandyan families.
In the sixties, “little england” off diyatalawa had mostly half white population – the british planters had left their genes behind. The great white hunters too left theirs behind at Kumana – a half white village on the nothern bank of Kumbukkan Oya which is the dividing line between the eastern & southern provinces.
As long as the “para demala” mentality exists – as it does, just beneath the surface in the psyche
of many sinhalas, tamils will never gain equality as citizens. They will have to struggle to exist / achieve or die in the process. Sinhalas are never going to offer ‘equality’ on a platter – whichever government comes to power. This was realised early, by Prabakaran and others. India & other nations will never understand.
Carlo said,
August 23, 2007 @ 1:34 pm
Dr. Narendran’s observations are well taken except that his final sentence needs a comment.
It takes two to play a game. Although the ball may be on the side of the Sinhalese it is impossible to play a game with no team on the other side. I mean, whenever theGovernment attempted to involve the so called representatives of the Tamils (LTTE)in peace talks in Sri Lanka and several other countries in the world, that attempt was thwarted by the LTTE for flimsy reasons.
If there is a genuine effort to play the game let both sides come forward with courage and determination, not only prepared to win, but to play the game honestly and even ready to lose.
The reader I hope will notice in his letter that Tamils are well accommodated in all parts of Sri Lanka even today, while all the Sinhalese and Muslims have been forcefully purged (ethnically cleansed) from the Tamil areas in the North by the so called representatives of the Tamils- the LTTE. So who is the non-accommodating party ?
Nice rhetoric nor commendable tetters like that of Dr. Narendran will ever appeal to hardened, criminal minds who know of nothing but the gun and the pleasure to kill.
mikeg said,
August 23, 2007 @ 2:15 pm
Well said, my sentiments exactly and probably of a majority of my fellow Sinhalese. But whilst we listen to the repressive narrow politics of the current corrupt ruling class of our country we have no hope of salvation-as a nation we will become the poor man of asia-and we will all Sinhalese,Tamils’muslims, and the remaining burghers will continue to suffer loosing our brothers ,sisters,fathers and mothers as well as the poor living conditions associated with this foolish endavour. The only ones succeeding here are the 10% men on all sides amassing untold wealth from the troubles.
wassa said,
August 23, 2007 @ 3:12 pm
I think the Tamils also have to take the responsibility for the damage caused by the ethnic war as although they expierienced atrocities on the hands of LTTE they are still continuing to support them by sending huge sums of money.This helped and helps to kill innocent civilians,proscription of child soldiers,easy and luxury life for LTTE leaders in foreign countries and untold damage to properties and lives in Sri Lanka.
Normally Singahlese are very pacific people and history showed us that they even did not mind having Tamils as their kings.Not only that they lived together for generations peacefully till English came and divided the three ethnic groups to rule the country.
It is a sad thing that brothers are killing together just because politicians are manipulating people.
Both Singahlese and Tamils together with Muslims have to abandon their leaders and say enough is enough and to make big peaceful protests and force all politicians to make peace by laying arms and neogotiating with each other without using foreign powers who also are there to use the war for their finacial games.
Sri Lankans are good and intelligent people irrespect of their religion or ethnic group and are also kind people.
It is the time to stop racial hate now.
dias said,
August 23, 2007 @ 4:20 pm
How romantic and how convenient? “The ball is in their court at this point in our history.”
It has taken two to tango, and it will take two to tango. Tamils are as equally responsible in working together with the SInhalese to let the past go, to merge, find solutions and forge forward.
Tamils cannot cop-out from their share of responsibility and shift burden exclusively to the Sinhalese.
2ndClassTamil said,
August 23, 2007 @ 10:16 pm
Good essay. Destined to the dustbin I guesss (as the author is a Tamil)
Kawung, Kokis, ?Seeni sambol, Umbalakada, Polos, Dhel etc – I have enjoyed. My mum used to make them too. The Tamils of today have not seen the real south to appreciate the Sinhalese way of life. Given the insecurities and uncertainties hanging over them like a cloud I can’t blame them. It is my view that a free, open and secure environment is a prerequisite for meaningful social interaction. I remember my father entertaining at home Sinhalese friends and families – poor as well as rich. Often he used to come late after clubbing with his Sinhalese friends (and then get the works from mum). I vaguely remember him talking with reverance about a bikku who lived in a forest – not in a vihara – whom my father had gone to see in meditation many times before the priest attained nirvana. My father apparently had association with bikkus regarding religious matters. He taught me that Buddhism is not a religion but a very structured way of life – when I was not ready for this bhavanava. Then I remember when I was barely 10, cutting elephant shapes from bales of white cloth for stitching onto green flags my mum was machining. Later I heard someone shout “wal aliya kale giya”
. Little did I realise inclusive politics too had gone out of SL! (So in some sense I am refuting what the author is saying. He may argue that I am one of the few).
All good things have to slowly but surely come to an end – after MEP won on its racial agenda. The pogroms that followed and the stupid political response of the Sinhalese no doubt made the Tamil become introverted. For all the good things you say about the Sinhalese brothers, I don’t think they understand the cultural heritage of the Tamils, which is backed up by the rich literature, art and music of the Tamils. I think they would not understand the deep feelings evoked and stirred by a poet like Bharathy, whom you quote. Only those who have mastered Tamil can understand the tradition of the Tamils, which is drilled into their psyche to place honour, valour, sacrifice, protection, righteousness, devotion, purity etc. on the highest pedestal. This is partly what is driving the Tamils.
I have a different take on MR/VP money deal. Tamils in general and Tigers in particular have little confidence on SLFP or UNP to solve the problem. (Besides Tigers don’t want Tamils to give legitimacy to any Sinhala govt). So it is logical for the Tigers to ask Tamils to refrain from voting. If someone – especially your enemy – is paying for carrying out your own policy where is the problem?
The ball has always been in the Sinhala court as they are the majority. If they don’t want to play, then the Tamils will have to go elsewhere.
Saman said,
August 24, 2007 @ 9:39 pm
Dear Sir,
Great peace of writing. It has given everyone food for thought.As a sinhalese ,I think you have clearly identified the problem.
ernest macintyre said,
August 25, 2007 @ 2:17 am
Good and valuable piece of writing. In this connection read Gunadasa Amarasekera, the foremost Sinhala Buddhist thinker, today, partaking in public life : ” The maximum contribution to the Sinhala Buddhist Civilization and culture, I believe, has been from Hindu Tamils which was of immense value in its evolution over centuries. I believe it was Hindu Tamil influence at the end of the tenth century that saved Buddhism from atrophy and disappearance. The victory of the Mahayanist forms influenced by Hinduism at that point of time was what made Buddhism adapt itself to changing social conditions of the day ” – Sunday Observer, Sri Lanka, 23/7/95 in the article, ” WHY SINHALA BUDDHISTS? ”
Unfortunately very little writing of this kind is found in Sinhala and Tamil in widespread availability.
Upul said,
August 25, 2007 @ 2:28 am
A thoughtful and compassionate article. Let us hope that the politicians who have ruined the nation will see the wisdom in these words.
Jeronimo Azavedo said,
August 25, 2007 @ 3:38 am
I am a Sinhalese and I agree 100% with the facts as presented by Mr Rajasingham Narendran.
Sri Lanka’s ethnic problem is one which could have, and still can be addressed with little difficulty if the those who lead have patience and most importantly understanding.
The Tamil leaders have abysmally failed in this and have consistently raised the Tamil nationalist red flag at the Sinhalese bull, only to enrage the majority against the minority.
The Sinhalese are an extraordinarily generous people and the Tamil could have got federalism and more if they approached the issue intelligently. Violence and threats do not work against the Sinhalese as Tamils may have now realised quite late in the day.
The Portuguese, Dutch and the British tried to get their way with the Sinhalese with great force, but failed every time. The British succeeded with diplomacy in taking Kandy without firing a shot.
The Sinhalese are very close to Tamils in almost every way, and if they had, or even at this late state used diplomacy rather than Tamil nationalist power, they would have got federalism and much more.
Only Kadirgamar understood this and only he succeeded in opening doors into the hearts of Sinhalese, that no other Tamil leader succeeded in doing.
There is a way for the Tamils to get what they want, but it is certainly not the Prabakaran or the Karuna way.
Attack the Sinhalese and they will resolve to destroy you as they have resolved to do right now by standing by Rajapakse.
Appeal to the Sinhalese generosity and they will load up their meager provisions on their heads and walk for miles to feed their Tamil brethren affected by the Tsunami, without expecting anything in return.
Tamils have failed to love thy neighbor. In fact after 2000 years they have failed even to understand their neighbor. After independence, for the slightest problem, Tamil leaders ran to India and South India. This was like showing a red flag to the Sinhalese bull. In fact the Tamils were blissfully unaware that they were with their high handed actions infuriating the Sinhalese and pulling the carpet from under the feet of the moderate Sinhalese leaders who wanted to reach an accommodation.
Even today, the Tamils are clueless and have combined forces with foreign forces and funding, and are marching on Kandy hoping to conquer the kingdom and have their way, quite blissfully unaware that the Kandyans are swarming in the hills and valleys below waiting for the great conquistadors to advance into the hell hole.
P.Nathan said,
August 30, 2007 @ 11:08 am
Reference remarks (6.) by 2ndClass Tamil – in the thirties we three children in the family were taught by our mother to worship the hindu ’swamis’ who visited our home in the east for alms on the way to Kataragama during the Annual Pilgrimage season.
She also made us worship the buddhist monks from the local vihara, who too visited our home once a month for alms – she told us that they too were ‘holy men’ like the ‘hindu swamis’.
She too worshipped the swamis and monks and gave them alms.
Later when I became a public servant in the fifties, I used to see sinhala villagers falling to the ground and worshipping the buddhist monks on the roadside – during my travels on state duties in the southern villages. But later, in the sixties and seventies, I saw this respect waning as the monks took up persuits not in accordance with what were laid down by the Beddha.
Now, the ‘political monks’ seem to have destroyed the respect from the laymen, except by the polticians who depend on them for survival.
Now they feel threatened with no income and no respect by laymen, and have embarked on a crusade against non-buddhists to bolster their claim for the “protection” of buddhism – noone knows against what, buddhism has to be “protected”.
Actually the monks may be wishing to protect their lately acquired luxurious way of life.
They have invented “SinhalaBuddhism” for their own survival.
I have been to Burma and Thailand on official trips and saw and admired the monks in those countries who actually praciice the buddhist way of life as was laid down by the Buddha. I met tamil migrants from India who told me that they are ‘hindu-buddhists’ , whatever that meant.